DIVORCE & FAMILY LAW ATTORNEY IN THE GREATER NYC METRO AREA

Divorce is difficult. Peace and resolution are possible.

Secure the divorce counsel and child custody legal representation that you and your children deserve

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Proactive & Personalized Legal Strategies

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Child-Centric
Approach

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Assertive Advocacy Without Sacrificing Compassion

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Divorce and child custody disputes can be some of the most emotionally and financially draining experiences of your life.

When you don’t have the right legal representation, you risk:

  • Losing control over important decisions regarding your children and assets

  • Being overwhelmed by complex legal proceedings and court requirements

  • Experiencing unnecessary stress, delays, and financial strain due to ineffective legal strategy

  • Losing focus of your priorities

  • Getting caught up in emotions, which can cloud good judgment 

  • Failing to secure a fair custody arrangement that prioritizes your child’s best interests

With Barbara A. Castrataro, you will not go through this alone. You deserve an attorney who will stand by your side to fiercely protect your rights, advocate for your future, and ensure you are heard.

  • “Barbara Castrataro fought for my children and for my parental rights as if they were her own.

    She is strategic, quietly fierce and relentless in her pursuit of justice for her clients. Ms. Castrataro’s in-depth knowledge of the intricacies of the law outpaced the opposing counsel at every turn. Working tirelessly for my family since the moment we met, she mounted a carefully orchestrated case and delivered it calmly and effectively. Ms. Castrataro was always accessible to me by phone and email and always had the details of my case at the top of her mind. I will be forever grateful to Ms. Castrataro for her extraordinary expertise, intelligence, kindness, and remarkable ability to always be one step ahead of the opposition. She is exactly whom you want by your side during such a stressful process.”

    EMILY

  • "Barbara Castrataro is a brilliant and compassionate attorney who fights for her clients.

    She cares about her clients and holds their hands through the process and is tenacious in fighting for what is right.”

    AGAPE

  • "To see her in the courtroom is phenomenal. Doesn't miss a beat.

    Barbara defended an action from my ex spouse for custody of my children. I had a very complex case full of untrue accusations. She helped me focus on the facts, which were on our side. [She] was always available for me, worked through many weekends, including holidays. Unbelievable trial prep, which showed clearly at trial. To see her in the courtroom is phenomenal. Doesn't miss a beat. Blew the other attorney away. She's the best. Can't sing her praises enough.”

    NICOLE

  • "It is impossible to measure the impact Barbara has had on me and my family’s lives.

    There is no true place to start with a proper review except with complete and utter gratitude and adoration. She is as professional as she is kind. Her eye for detail is otherworldly and the simple care and consideration that she not only puts into her work but the cases she works on is something you rarely ever hear someone say about an attorney. She has never made me feel like ‘just another case’ or ‘just another client’. From our very first conversation, I knew — I knew there was no other search to be had. I found the person that I wanted on my side to help me navigate this most vulnerable and delicate part of my life. Her advice and counsel is unparalleled. This human being is not only my guardian angel but has become my family. She is my voice in the courtroom and the moral compass voice in my head. She has held my hand figuratively and literally when I needed.”

    ASHLEY

  • "If one has to go through a divorce then there is no one better than Barbara to go through it with.

    Barbara Castrataro saved me; as my lawyer, this brilliant woman protected me and made me feel that my pain was her pain. Barbara was sharp, strategic, and paid attention to every detail. I understood what was at stake, and felt that I was her most important client. I found Barbara Castrataro completely poised and utterly prepared to respond to whatever was thrown at her. She is completely passionate about her work.
    I was saved by Barbara Castrataro and have never forgotten it.”

    ERNIE

  • "An attorney that cares and understands all aspects of your case.

    I highly recommend Barbara A. Castrataro. Esq. for any advice and representation on legal matters-particularly those that involve divorce. She was extremely thorough in terms of her efforts to fully understand the case at hand, and in getting to know each person who would be directly impacted by the outcome or decision in that case. Barbara showed a unique ability to understand interpersonal relationships and go to great lengths to assist above and beyond the normal parameters. She made all the difference in every aspect!”

    GEORGE

  • "Barbara helped me with my divorce and was always there for me when I called (other lawyers left me hanging).

    She kept on top of everything. I was very happy with the results."

    SATISTFIED CLIENT

  • "Barbara is a brilliant, quick-thinking advocate.

    She is well-versed in the law and keeps up with recent changes. She is thoughtful and reasonable in her negotiations, never losing sight of her client's best interests. She is a formidable opponent but conducts herself professionally and respectfully, which helps the judicial process advance to conclusion.

    OPPOSING COUNSEL

  • "I endorse this lawyer.

    Barbara is a highly competent attorney who I strongly recommend. She is easy to deal with, responsive and very experienced. She is admired by clients and attorneys.”

    OPPOSING COUNSEL

  • "I endorse this lawyer.

    Barbara has a great courtroom presence and mastery of detail. She genuinely cares about her clients.”

    FAMILY LAW COLLEAGUE

FAMILY LAW SERVICES

Compassionate, Strategic Legal Guidance for Complex Divorce and Child Custody Cases

Navigating divorce and custody issues can be overwhelming and isolating. With our strong advocacy, unwavering support, and fastidious preparation, you will not be alone as you face  these challenges. We stand by your side, helping you navigate each step with clarity, confidence, and resilience – so you can move forward with strength and create the peaceful future you deserve.

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Divorce Counsel

Strategic legal representation for contested and uncontested divorces, asset division, and spousal support.

  • Divorce is one of life’s most challenging transitions, and the decisions you make now will shape your future. At Barbara A. Castrataro, Esq., we take a proactive approach, always staying steps ahead to protect your rights and to secure the best possible outcome. Our clients often describe us as being able to "see around corners," ensuring that no aspect of your case goes unexamined. Whether through negotiation or litigation, we will develop a tailored legal strategy fit for your unique needs while working to minimize unnecessary stress and conflict.

    We pride ourselves on offering strong advocacy, personal attention, a non-judgmental environment, and complete transparency throughout the legal process. Our scrupulous preparation combined with rigorous scrutiny often leads to favorable settlements without the need for trial, but when litigation is necessary, we are relentless advocates in the courtroom drawing on our extensive trial experience. We always work to achieve a negotiated settlement but are equally prepared in experience and preparation to take your case to trial. 

    We also provide dedicated services for:

    • high-asset divorces, 

    • LGBTQIA+ family matters, and 

    • alternative dispute resolution through mediation and collaborative divorce.

    No matter your circumstances, we are here to guide you with strength, empathy, and unwavering support. We are here to  share your burden, bring clarity and calm in the chaos, and champion your case.

Child Custody

Aggressive advocacy for child-focused custody arrangements, appropriate parental access in the best interests of the children, and relocation matters preserving the child’s relationship with both parents.

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  • Child custody disputes are among the most emotionally charged legal matters, requiring both strategic advocacy and deep sensitivity. At Barbara A. Castrataro, Esq., we prioritize the well-being of your children while fiercely protecting and advocating for your parental rights. We encourage cooperative solutions that allow parents to maintain control over their custody arrangements rather than leaving such critical decisions to the court. However, when negotiation fails, we are fully prepared to litigate with a well-planned, strong, and child-focused strategy that promotes stability and security for the children and restores peace for your family.

    We also assist with child support matters, ensuring that financial obligations are fair and aligned with New York law. Whether you need assistance with initial support determinations, modifications due to changing circumstances, including relocation, or enforcement of existing orders, we bring a practical understanding of the financial realities of raising children. 

    Our goal is to provide clarity, guidance, and advocacy so you can get through these challenges with confidence – knowing that both you and your children are protected.

Litigation

Providing extensive experience, insight, and proficiency to litigate your case and bring your matter to resolution.

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  • Getting served with divorce or court papers can be traumatic. Having an attorney who has extensive litigation experience trying cases and appearing in court is invaluable. Positioning your case for trial can actually facilitate a prompt settlement.

    Hiring an attorney with not only the ability to try cases but one who has extensive experience doing so provides our clients with the confidence and the security of knowing that their attorney is prepared to move the case to resolution without reservation. This also places your case on track for a full and thoughtful analysis of the possible outcomes and minimizes surprises.

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By Your Side Through the Challenges

We offer legal representation in:

  • Divorce Litigation

  • Equitable Distribution of Marital Property

  • High Asset Divorce

  • Complex Asset Divorce

  • Hidden Asset Divorce

  • Forensic Valuation Litigation

  • Business Valuation Litigation

  • Litigation involving Separate Property and Co-mingled and Transmuted Assets

  • Contested Divorce

  • Uncontested Divorce

  • LGBTQIA+ Divorce & Separation

  • Collaborative Divorce

  • Child Custody, Visitation, and Relocation

  • Litigation High-Conflict Child Custody

  • Enforcement of Custody & Support

  • Spousal Support 

  • Child support

  • Divorce Litigation

  • Orders of Protection/ Retirement/ Pensions and premarital property

  • Divorce Settlement Negotiation

  • Divorce Mediation Counsel

  • Adult & Step Parent Adoption

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OUR COLLABORATIVE PROCESS

Your Path to Peace and Resolution Starts Now

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Schedule a Consultation

Book a complimentary initial call to discuss your unique situation and learn more about our approach.


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Share Your Story

We’ll gather information, explore your options together, and give you clarity on next steps.


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Start Your Path Forward

With clear communication and strategic guidance, we’ll work toward a positive resolution.

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WHY WE’RE DIFFERENT

A Strong Legal Force When You Need It Most

You never expect to need a divorce or family law attorney, but when the time comes, having the right advocate on your side makes all the difference.

For over 35 years, Barbara A. Castrataro, Esq. has helped families reach fair and successful resolutions with these principles:

  • Meticulous 360-Degree Case Analysis: We scrutinize every angle of your case and the opposing party’s strategy to maximize your position.

  • Proactive Legal Representation: We anticipate obstacles before they arise, ensuring you remain steps ahead throughout the process – with as few surprises along the way as possible.

  • Balance Between Resolution & Litigation: While we strive for amicable resolutions, we are experienced in and fully prepared to litigate if necessary.

  • Personalized Client Partnership: You are not just another case – your story matters, and we partner with you to find your voice, achieve your goals, and come out stronger.

  • Child-First Custody Representation: We emphasize the emotional and developmental well-being of the children in every custody case.

FAQS

Get Answers to Common Questions From People Looking for the Right Attorney

  • We view the attorney-client relationship as a true partnership, working together toward a successful resolution. Our approach includes a 360-degree analysis of your case, evaluating both strengths and challenges on both sides to build the most effective legal strategy. From the beginning, we craft a compelling narrative that supports your case, whether for settlement negotiations or trial. We are always prepared for both. We provide unwavering advocacy drawn from our years of litigation experience and trial work.

  • With over 35 years of experience, we have successfully litigated complex custody disputes, high-asset divorces, complex valuation cases, relocation cases, and international family law matters. We have handled cases where law was made, cases involving parental mental health, substance abuse, forensic financial evaluations, and asset tracing. Our capabilities extend to prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, including when litigation is brought, appellate cases, and even serving as trial counsel for other attorneys. Our extensive background allows us to approach every case with strategic insight and legal precision. We have also been hired as an expert to testify on premarital agreements.

  • Selecting the right attorney is one of the most critical decisions you will make. Family law matters are deeply personal, involving your children, finances, and future. Trust, candor, and strong advocacy are essential in this professional relationship. We believe in building a true partnership with our clients, ensuring that our approach aligns with your goals. We encourage you to consider the need for such a partnership because finding the right fit is as important to us as it is to you.

  • If you want to make the most of our complimentary 45-minute phone consultation, prepare a list of your assets, financial accounts, and any outstanding debts. Information regarding both spouses’ income and earning potential is also helpful. Organizing your thoughts, concerns, and any specific questions in advance can ensure a productive meeting. During the consultation, we will walk you through the legal process, helping you understand what to expect and assisting you in making an informed decision about representation.

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Your family, your future, and your peace of mind are worth fighting for. 

Let’s build a plan to help you come out on the other side – stronger.